Disentangling From Survivor’s Guilt I’ve Carried For Lifetimes
When the soul is fractured, we choose a blood lineage where we see the pattern again in a big way.
As Nina and I tuned in at the beginning of this conversation, it became apparent that we weren’t dealing with an ancestral entanglement, but a past life entanglement.
A fractal of Nina’s soul was stuck in another lifetime.
Which left Nina unable to be her fullest, truest, most impactful self.
You’ll especially want to tune into this client session if you, too:
» were born premature or had a vanishing twin in utero
» want a full client roster and more financial stability
» tend to be really hard on yourself
» feel like you’re not good enough
» relate to being a perfectionist
Topics covered in this podcast episode:
What Nina’s intention is for this constellation work session
What to do if you don’t get a clear message immediately when you tune in
How to know when it might not be an ancestral entanglement but maybe a past life issue
The difference between the familial systemic field and the soul systemic field
What someone might feel in their body as they’re able to access the entanglement
What similar scenarios may play out lifetime to lifetime for a soul
What happens when a soul is fractured
The importance of disentangling fully even from your own past life
The Tarot cards Amy pulled before Nina’s session and how they connect
Practices Nina can weave in as she embodies her full self going forward
It was a delight having Nina on the podcast today. I’m so excited to see what unfolds for her in her business and finances!
For anyone who was born premature or who had a vanishing twin in utero, I hope this episode is deeply moving and healing for you.
If you’re ready to do this work with me, I invite you to schedule a 20 minute complimentary call to see if we're a good match.
I look forward to supporting you, your blood lineage, your soul lineage, and whoever else is in your systemic field!
Until we meet again, wishing you deep peace, deep trust, deep worthiness, and radical “I've got this in this lifetime energy!”
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The unedited podcast transcript for this episode of The Soulful Visionary Podcast follows
Amy Babish:
Have you ever felt like there's something more just waiting to be unlocked in your life? Like no matter how much you've accomplished, a deeper potential is calling. Welcome to the Soulful Visionary Podcast, where I guide you to align with your authentic self and create a life of purpose, love, and lasting impact. A life where you can truly soar beyond what your mind can comprehend. I'm your host, Amy Babish, a licensed psychotherapist and an expert in somatic coaching, feng shui, and wisdom traditions. With over 20 years of experience guiding thousands of clients through soul level transformation. Each week, we'll dive into potent practices, live client sessions, and insightful conversations to help you dissolve intergenerational patterns and transcend your upper limits so that you can live the big life you are meant to live. Tune in and let's unlock your inner wisdom together. Welcome to the Soulful Visionary Podcast.
Amy Babish:
I'm your host, Amy Babish, and I am here with Nina. And Nina and I have known each other for many years in many different ways, and today we're working on something really sacred and important and incredibly frustrating. And I'm just gonna let Nina go in and share what her intention is.
Nina:
Hi, Amy. Thank you for having me. Yeah, I really feel that I'm, like, ready to level up in my work, and there's something that's holding me back, and it's this, like, struggle that I've had and relying so much so often on support from my family that I'm so grateful for. And I feel that it's. I'm already getting emotional. I feel like it's. I don't want to call it a. A.
Nina:
A crutch, but it's been, like, this thing that I've been able to rely on, so it's also kept me from, like, fully expanding and stepping into my own power. And I'm a late bloomer. I was born premature two months early, and I have always felt like I'm trying to catch up in my life, and I'll be 51 this year, and so I'm like, okay, I gotta, like, do the things. And I'm always really hard on myself in that and wanting to just. I feel like there's, like, an edge that I keep bumping up against and I don't know how to name it. I don't know. I'm trying to, like, expand and I work for myself and I wanna be of service in. In to many different people.
Nina:
Right now. I'm. I'm kind of in service to a core group of people But I'm not in this place of like growth that I can feel myself, that I felt my whole life has been part of my journey or is meant to be part of my journey. So I really feel like there's something that's like been blocking me for as long as I've been working. And I think it might be useful to go in and figure out what that is.
Amy Babish:
Yeah, so we're gonna, we're gonna. This is like you're naming so many important parts. So you really did a beautiful job of naming like what you experience as the entanglement. And I want to get a little bit more specific in the forward movement. So the forward movement when you speak is. You said up level. I want to uplevel in my work. So the field really responds well when we're really specific.
Amy Babish:
So do you have like an income level or a number of clients or anything that would like help the field to know where we're headed? You don't have to share the specific number, but as long as you presence that to yourself, like I know the income level and you say it to yourself in the field and it's okay for privacy and confidentiality. Put everything on blast. What about like number of clients? Anything like that? Like any. Any more specificity that would feel like. Oh, that's. That feels like it's. It.
Nina:
The number keeps coming to me is 15 at full. Full rate.
Amy Babish:
Okay. And when you feel into the full rate, have you been able to charge that rate before or it. Okay, yeah. And because I'm just looking for patterns. So. Yeah, any patterns that you notice. Like once you start charging it to one pe, one person or to a group of people, what happens after that?
Nina:
Well, I have a sliding scale. And so it's based on like, I have my clients choose their rate and it's based on a kind of. I got it from right now, her name is escaping me. But it's, it's an anti oppression lens. And so there, there's questions that they answer based on privilege, based on culture, based on where they've lived and come from. And so based on those, you know, answers. My scale is between. You want me to tell you the numbers?
Amy Babish:
As long as you're clear on it.
Nina:
Like, so, yeah, I'm clear that it's like I've been able to, you know, I've, I've. I've been able to consistently, or I would say semi consistently. I have no problem saying like, this is my rate. Yeah, like I remember years ago when you're like, this is Your rate, and I lost it. And so I've come a long way from that moment. But it's, or. And I, I appreciate, and I like having the, the sliding scale. But the other thing is, like, there's other clients that I have that are, are on insurance.
Nina:
And so it's like that scale for my out of pocket clients and then the insurance clients, and then there's a gap that's definitely created and it's like, can I, can I move away from this insurance? Yeah. Of people. Because, you know, I think the part of me and I think I, when I kind of wrote to you, it's like I cycle back into this story of like, I'm not good enough.
Amy Babish:
Yeah.
Nina:
To, to do this. Even though I get a lot of positive feedback from clients and they're super appreciative and I'm doing good work and I believe in the work and I love the work. My story is that I, I, I won't be able to rely on my ability to expand in a way that's reaching more people. And because my message to me feels clear. But then if I'm like putting something on social media, I shut down. Or like, it feels very vulnerable in ways that, like, I think are keeping me in this loop.
Amy Babish:
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I can feel like this is more, this is more juicy. So. Because we want to just keep it like, really as specific as possible, and you just added a ton more specificity, and I think that's super helpful. Okay. So our next step is to literally, like a radio dial. We're going to allow you and I and your systemic field to tune into this intention and this entanglement.
Nina:
Okay.
Amy Babish:
And so when we tune in, you might get images, sounds, words, people, a context. We're gonna, this is just the first layer. So we're gonna just get what we get. So I will also tune in. We'll take a moment to do that. And let me know what you noticed.
Nina:
Well, I hear sounds outside.
Amy Babish:
Okay.
Nina:
And then I heard one of the kids. They're playing a video game. So they're like animated.
Amy Babish:
Yeah.
Nina:
And then I was like, oh, wait, July, the dog, he's like right next to me. I was like, don't bark because, like. And I forgot to tell you that she was with me. So she's here. She's usually pretty chill, but as far as, like, kind of going inside, it felt like I, I got a sense of like, a little bit of just curiosity. Like there's, it feels like there's something to be curious about.
Amy Babish:
Okay.
Nina:
I don't know. That's.
Amy Babish:
That'S just the data point. That's, that's all we take it in as. Okay, so for our next layer, we're going to present your mom behind your left shoulder and your dad behind your right shoulder. And you're going to ask them specifically, do you carry this pattern of feeling like you're not, you're not good enough? And then when you go to be doing the thing you want to do, you hold back and you feel really vulnerable. Do you carry that pattern?
Nina:
Interesting. My. Like, at first it was like my dad.
Amy Babish:
Yeah.
Nina:
And then like, like, you know, some seconds later it was like my mom. So it feels like both.
Amy Babish:
I, I had a, I had a hunch.
Nina:
I had a hunch. Yeah.
Amy Babish:
So this is where it gets interesting because we, we might have done this only on a couple episodes so far. So in the way that I'm trained in this, this style of constellation work, when both sides of the lineage carry the pattern. We know that. We don't know. No. But my working hypothesis now is that this is a soul issue, so this is a past life issue. Yeah.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
What do you notice when I say that? It.
Nina:
Like I, I feel like I've tried to, to name that for myself in the past or I've named it for other people of like, this isn't yours to carry. I feel like tightness in my chest right now.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. Yeah. So in this, in this, in the way that we do this work.
Nina:
We'Re.
Amy Babish:
Going to ask the field to bring you to the lifetime where this happened. How does that feel?
Nina:
Okay.
Amy Babish:
Okay.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. And so we're, we can presence to your soul that we're not, we're not here to make it wrong and bad. We're here to get, we're here to get some relief for, for your. The soul fractal or the past life and for you and in this current time.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
This lifetime. Okay. So when we, we. We're going to do a retune in. So before we were asking, you know, it feels like we were asking really your familial systemic field. And now we're asking your soul systemic field.
Nina:
Okay.
Amy Babish:
And so in the soul systemic field, we're going to tune in to the resistance or the entanglement. That's really where the, where the hook is.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
Okay.
Nina:
Okay.
Amy Babish:
Can they take you to that place? Can they show you where it started? And who are you standing with?
Nina:
It's not a, like, it's like a. All I see is like a, like kaleidoscope of Color. Okay, so it's not an image or like a kind of a felt sense of someone specific.
Amy Babish:
Yep.
Nina:
But it's like, mostly orange.
Amy Babish:
Okay. Okay. And what's the feeling of it? Like, is there emotion or is there, like, an energy to.
Nina:
Feels. It feels cold.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. Yeah. So you can say to. You can say to your soul, I want to understand what this means. It's not clear to me. It.
Nina:
It's like shifting colors now. It's like, okay, going more blue, aqua. Like, it's still, like, in a interesting kaleidoscopy pattern. And so it's like. Doesn't feel. It's interesting because the color. The color orange felt cold, but this blue, like, aqua feels warmer, and it just kind of, like, is morphing in this way, and it doesn't. I don't hear a response yet or, like, kind of.
Nina:
Yeah, that's.
Amy Babish:
Okay. So we're going to ask it. You know, thank you for showing me. Thank you for showing me a bit about who you might be or what you might be. And can you show me where this started for you? Where. Where the hurt, where the pain, where the. I have to hide who I really am. It's too vulnerable to be who I am, and I'm not good enough to be me.
Amy Babish:
Can you show me where, where and how that it.
Nina:
The thing that keeps.
Amy Babish:
I keep.
Nina:
I can feel myself trying to. Like, maybe it's something else. Maybe it's something else. But the thing that came to me was birth.
Amy Babish:
Okay.
Nina:
And I don't know. Like, I think the perfectionist in me is like, no, it's got to be something older. Yeah.
Amy Babish:
So we're gonna ask. We're just gonna ask. It's okay. So you can say, is it the birth? Is it my birth in this lifetime or is it my soul having a birth or becoming alive in another life? It.
Nina:
Feels like another lifetime.
Amy Babish:
So you can say in your own way, like you're speaking from your heart. I have worked through my birth trauma in this lifetime, and I honor what happened to me and my sibling. And what happens when you try and relate to whatever is happening and you express what you just expressed.
Nina:
Feel softer in my chest. I feel like warmth all around me.
Amy Babish:
So you can say. You can say to this part of your soul, I. I know that you struggled with birth, too, because I know about it in this lifetime. And if it feels true to say, Nina, you can say, I wanted to be here so badly. I came here early. I wanted to try again. Our soul wanted to try again. But I can't be here without you.
Amy Babish:
You're a missing piece of me. It.
Nina:
I feel, like, a little bit resistant and, like, kind of like asking for something else, something more.
Amy Babish:
So do you feel like it's your resistance or the soul's resistance?
Nina:
I feel like it's this. The soul's resistance of, like. I see the image of, like, digging heels in.
Amy Babish:
Yep. So you can say to it. Tell me what your struggle was. Your struggle to live, your struggle to be born, your struggle with money, your struggle with really being seen for who you are. Tell me or show me what that struggle was.
Nina:
Like. I have an image of, like, a struggling struggle to be heard and, like, believed or that I mattered.
Amy Babish:
Okay. And can they show us the context? Was it in their family? Was it in community society? Was it specific to gender?
Nina:
It feels like it was society.
Amy Babish:
Okay.
Nina:
They get, like, a. I don't know, like, a global thing of, like. Like something that's, like, women's suffrage or like, something that's, like, so big, and it's like, in community with other people who are also, like, struggling to have their voices heard.
Amy Babish:
Yeah.
Nina:
It's like I'm, you know, kind of like. It feels like Susan Beanie, Susan B. Anthony, like, level of, like.
Amy Babish:
Yeah, somebody really big.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
So you can say to your soul, I'm not able to live my life fully because I'm loyal to the pain that you experience for being big. I use more of my life force because I miss you, and I want to belong to all the regrets, to everything that was projected onto you. I belong to those things rather than to my own life or to my own soul. It.
Nina:
Got my. My body softening. Like, my breath is easy.
Amy Babish:
And what happens for this part of your soul.
Nina:
Like, it's not. Not digging in. The resistance kind of dissipated.
Amy Babish:
Okay.
Nina:
Like, I'm aware of wanting to kind of. I guess it feels like a surrender.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. So you can ask her who or what was not available during that lifetime that she really wanted to be there for her. Someone that could have held her while she was being brave, while she was taking risks, while she kept on showing up. It might be someone from your life. It might be someone that she was inspired by, from history. It might be something in nature. It might be something metaphysical.
Nina:
It's got the. The word brother.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. Yeah. So we're going to invite her brother in, and she may or may not have seen him for however long she's been dead. So it might be a first. A first time she's seen him. It. What happens as they reunite?
Nina:
It's just, like, calm.
Amy Babish:
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Nina:
There's no, like, animosity. There's no yeah.
Amy Babish:
And so she can say to him directly whatever she needs to say. Like, I needed you, you weren't there for me. Or I needed you and you were dead. Or I needed you and you didn't. You didn't know. You couldn't listen to whatever the truth is. We want her to be able to say the truth to him.
Nina:
Got, like, a hit when you said needed you and you were dead.
Amy Babish:
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So she can say if this feels true for her, to him, I felt guilty for being alive, and you're the one who died. And you can say to them, I know about this, too. This pattern repeated in this lifetime for me, what happens for them and what happens for you?
Nina:
They feel seen.
Amy Babish:
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And what about for you?
Nina:
It's like another layer. Like, I've worked through a lot of processed and, like, did a meditation to, like, bring me back into the experience of being in utero and having my sister with me and then not. And it was really profound. And I was able to let go of a lot of the survivor guilt in that moment. And, you know, I'm realizing this moment that there's, like, as you and I both know in the work, there's always more layers.
Amy Babish:
Yeah.
Nina:
But it feels like, you know, something? I've. I don't even think I've ever registered as, like, oh, yeah, there's many people that were born before me in my lineage and not. I don't think I've, in this. Until this moment, realized, like, oh, wait, there could have been more moments that my soul had of having similar experiences of losing a twin or having someone.
Amy Babish:
Banished from your life that you loved.
Nina:
And I've had. I've had a lot of people in the last three years that have left my life.
Amy Babish:
Banished from your life. Yeah. Yeah. And so as you present that we're going to go back in with them, and you can say in your own way, I had no idea how deeply this. This ran for me. Like, this is what happens when the soul is fractured. We choose. We choose a blood lineage that we get to see the pattern again in a big way, in an uncanny way.
Amy Babish:
And so you can say. To say to them, I want nothing more than for you to be together in the afterlife with each other, and you never have to separate. And whatever else you need to say to them, Nina, what happens when you express those things.
Nina:
They'Re, like, worthy. Keeps coming to me, is, like, peace and content. Like, Kind of like receiving.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. Yeah. So our next. Our next movement with them is for you to take your life back from her, your soul. You can welcome that part of your soul, the soul fractal, welcoming it home to your body in your soul that inhibits this body in this lifetime. And I set you to be free with your brother and live in the mystery. And I welcome my whole. My soul fractal home so that I can fully be me.
Amy Babish:
I can disentangle from the survivor's guilt that I carried not only in this lifetime, but in other lifetimes. I can be free to fully live, make money in a meaningful way, doing meaningful work, and allow myself to be fully seen without fear of losing someone else I love. I'm disill entangling from being seen and that there's a cost or a price to pay. When I'm all of me, I'm ready to step into my destiny. That growth is a part of not only this time's destiny, but my soul's destiny. I welcome all those birth waters back to fully nourish me into this rebirth, in this next iteration of my soul. And anything else you want to share with her, with her brother, with your sister, anything else you want to name in this space? Anything that comes up.
Nina:
The first word that comes to me is gratitude. Like my. A huge part of who I am is being of service and holding space. Always so grateful for being able to witness others in their journeys. And so I think witnessing this part, I'm just grateful.
Amy Babish:
It brings me. You know, feels like it brings you almost joy to. To let your soul be free in that lifetime that she could be in her wholeness with her brother.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
And anything else she or her brother wants to say to you.
Nina:
Go big.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. And you can say, I'll let that. Like, you can say, can you. Can you send that to me as a transmission? Like, I'm ready to get. I'm ready to receive that. It might be like the colors that they use first until they really trusted you. It might be some more colors and kaleidoscope energy. You can say, I want to really get it, because I know in the other lifetime, I knew how to go big.
Amy Babish:
I was radically big. And that bigness matters to me. That's who I really am.
Nina:
I see a stage.
Amy Babish:
Yeah, yeah, yeah. You can invite them if they want to, to. To kind of be like your backup team, like your AV team or Lights. I think they might really like that. I have a sense.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
You can say, would you like to be. Would you like to help me to get on stage. I would like your help. And if your sister wants to be there, I think that would make her really happy, too.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
Yeah.
Nina:
I can. I can see him, like, all up in the. In the rafters. Yeah, yeah.
Amy Babish:
Is there anything else?
Nina:
And just feel warm.
Amy Babish:
So we will. We will complete with the space. With the. With the soul space. And to make sure you're fully Nina, you can say to yourself your full name. So. And we're going to just tap. We're going to.
Amy Babish:
You can watch me when I do it. So we tap, tap, tap. And you say your full name. And so I am Amy Christine Babish. I am Amy Christine Babish only. And so you're just gonna. You can say it to yourself. And you want to swipe down when you say only.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. And so this. This helps to disentangle, like, fully. And that you get to be Nina. And that soul fractal is now in her ancestry. She's in her bloodline now. So that's where. That's how we separate out.
Nina:
Okay.
Amy Babish:
You want a sip of water?
Nina:
Yes.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. We're both taking. I'm taking my tea. So what are your questions? How was this for you? Anything you want to name? Just as you and me.
Nina:
Yeah, I think it's really. It's interesting to. Because, as you know, I do a lot of my own work, and the like, limiting beliefs can come so quickly, and they've all. They kind of. They've been so internalized in my system that I really feel that this work, this piece has been helpful and potent for me to, like. I mean, it's almost like perspective taking of, like. Like, let's zoom out a little and look at, like, the broader picture of all the constellations of who you've been and who you are and wanting to. You know, I have this visual of, like, just little kind of.
Nina:
I guess it's constellations of me and who I've been in past lives and who I. Who I am now and how everything is connected. And, yes. Wanting to understand or kind of like be like, oh, that's. That was me then. It doesn't have to be me now. And so I think it's really powerful to have that perspective and, like, name it. I don't think I've named it.
Nina:
I think it's been like, oh, it's this huge part of just my soul and not considering that I've been. Been to places and that are in my system, but not consciously. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Amy Babish:
So, you know, limiting beliefs are Interesting. Because when they are from the ancestral field or both blood or soul, we think it's ours because that's what an entanglement is.
Nina:
Right.
Amy Babish:
But it's not, it's not actually ours for many, many people. So with that, ants with that, with that part of your soul, we didn't have to get into like did she make a vow or did she make a contract? We don't have to even do that in this, this kind of work. She needed the resource to feel free to be her.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
And then she stopped second guessing everything else. It just like her limbing bliss, it. It dissolved in the field. So sometimes it's like apples for apples, because it's your soul that happened there, it will happen in you. And sometimes it's like it needs like to integrate. So you're familiar with that part. But for the listeners, integration can be expansion and contraction. So it's like, oh, I feel like a superwoman now and then.
Amy Babish:
Oh shit. Like I'm feeling vulnerable again. But it's not, it's not ever going to go back to that super closed pace where it's like super vulnerable and super emotional to be you. It just will be like, like a little bit, like a little hesitation or it might be like a little two step and you come back out. I have a sense that that might be the way it moves forward with you. And I did pull some cards before we got on and I asked what the highest outcome is for you. And I use the wild unknown deck and it's the father of wands, which is a king cobra with the lightning bolt and.
Nina:
Nice.
Amy Babish:
Kind of the essence of it is leadership, boldness, decisiveness, and that there's genius present in your work. So I feel like, I feel like you knew that there's genius in your work, but it's like being able to take the lead and really move with it and allow it to be seen more. It feels like getting this part of your soul fractal back is going to help you to be clear about how you're going to do it. So yeah, for those listening, Nina was very clear about that part before. Sometimes, you know, the Lumen le came in and interrupted the thoughts, but I think at the, at the core of who you are, you know that.
Nina:
Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.
Amy Babish:
And you know, when it comes to like the discernment of leaving insurance panels, which has been many, many people's journeys in this lifetime and in many lifetimes across, across the universe, I would say what it feels like given, given what happened with your Past life. It's like what could be so big that lets you be brave and supported in a different way? It's, it's like this past life was around like the. Why in the vision, like she was called to be brave because of women's empowerment. It felt, it felt like. And it's similar to you and when it comes to like kind of like taking that zoomed out lens that you're talking about. Yes. A hundred percent people who are insurance need high quality, amazing practitioners. And there are many more people these days who actually don't have insurance or who are limited with only in network providers or like lots of constrictions.
Amy Babish:
And so your vision and your impact of being able to serve more people through an equity, equity based lens perspective, you could actually reach more people by stepping away from the insurance panel. Insurance panel keeps you small and only like in this circle. But you want to reach a much, much bigger circle, a much bigger stage, to be specific.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
And so that can maybe be a visual for you that feels like very connected. I, you know, I didn't, I don't always see what my clients see, but I had a sense like there was just like a lot of, a lot of people gathered in a tight space and even though the movement was big, it was like I feel smushed in the beginning.
Nina:
Yeah.
Amy Babish:
And so it's like you don't have to be smushed with insurance based only clients. It's like there's so much more reach, so much more latitude, so much, such a bigger ripple effect when like, okay, there was a time for me to be smushed and that time is complete because my soul is back with me now. Like more of my soul is back. Not that I was soulless before, but my soul has returned and I've worked through another layer of survivors, survival skilled. And when I'm smooshed in with insurance clients, I vanish in my own life. I belong to the vanishing. And I don't want to vanish for me or for my sibling or for my past life as a women's empowerment person or for her mother.
Nina:
Right.
Amy Babish:
I don't need to do that in any lifetime ever again. I'm complete with vanishing. I'm complete with staying small. I'm complete with being smushed in. Those are all themes from your actual life, your lived life. Yeah. And your past life.
Nina:
Yep, that's true.
Amy Babish:
So how does that all land when we name it in those terms?
Nina:
That all resonates so much for sure. Yeah. I think it's, you know, if it feels, or I feel clear.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. And it feels like a little bit of, like a universe wink with the. With the. With the father of wands, with the king cobra. Because we're. When we're recording this, it's the year of the snake. And the element of. The element of the snake is fire.
Amy Babish:
It represents fire and alchemy. And in alchemy, fire is the first element we use to ignite the alchemical cycle. And so as you start to, like, go and be more. Nina. Yeah. I would always. I would recommend you light a candle every time you do it.
Nina:
Okay.
Amy Babish:
Yeah. You want to bring in the fire element, because that feels like, very important to, like, just alchemize any residual things that are around. Not that I don't. I don't think there will be, but just also to, like, have a clear path forward. That feels really important.
Nina:
Okay, that's helpful.
Amy Babish:
And if you don't, like, sometimes we're in places where we can't. We don't have matches or we can't. Like, flames, like, just light a candle in your heart. Light a flame in your heart. Put an imaginal, liminal flame into your space, onto your laptop or onto your phone when you go on to post on social media. Like, bring the flame. Yeah, that feels really important.
Nina:
Okay.
Amy Babish:
Is there anything else before we close up?
Nina:
No. I'm so grateful.
Amy Babish:
It has been a delight, Nina. And I am so, so, so excited to see what unfolds for you and your business and your clients and your finances and your. Like. My question is, like, where. Which stage are you gonna be on first? Like, that's the. That's a serious question. And I think for those of you who are listening, if you are someone who was premature or you yourself were a vanishing. Had a vanishing twin in utero, or you feel like you just can't be vulnerable, and no matter what you do, you're in the cycle of.
Amy Babish:
I know I'm meant for more, but I. I just can't. I can't do it. I can't receive it. I can't be it. I hope that Nina's episode deeply moves you. And if you are ready to do this work with me, I invite you to check the link in my bio or on my website of how to schedule in a 20 minute complimentary call to see if we're really good match. And I look forward to supporting you, your blood lineage, your soul lineage, and whoever else is in your systemic field until we meet again.
Amy Babish:
Wishing you deep peace, deep trust, deep worthiness, and radical like I've got this in this lifetime energy. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Nina:
Thank you so much, Amy.
Amy Babish:
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